Question: What would it take for gays and lesbians to come out fighting?
Answer: Fuck with their marriage rights…
The election of Obama was an unbelievably exciting and encouraging occasion. While many have spoken eloquently about the racial line crossed, for me it also felt generational. Barack is the first president, or really the first major politician, to feel like he swims in the same cultural pool as I do (granted, two decades removed but the actual chronological times feels far less). He wasn’t a member of the boomers, and for the first time, people of my generation mattered. I was incredibly moved by the sight of thousands of young, multi-ethnic Chicagoans celebrating their own sense of democratic power. That Obama seems worthy of their trust just makes it all the more gratifying.
But, that excitement and happiness was partly ruined by the passage of Proposition 8 in California, as well as similar measures in Florida, Arizona and Arkansas. Simply put, these measure were amendments to state constitutions to ensure that gays and lesbians would be treated as second class citizens and denied the right of civil marriage (and in the case of Arkansas denied the right to foster a child). However, it is specifically Proposition 8 which has become a lightning rod for controversy, which rather than dimming as exploded within the gay community since its passage.
Simply put, this summer the Republican dominated Californian Supreme Court ruled that under the state constitution, gays and lesbians could not be denied civil marriage, nor could they be fobbed off with ‘separate but not-really-equal’ domestic partnerships. This is important – they stated that the Constitution already grants them this right without any amendments being made. Jubilation followed the decision, and about 20,000 couples got married in the space of a couple of months.
These scenes are dangerous to fundamentalists. The sight of happy, devoted gay and lesbian couples undercuts their projected stereotype of gays and lesbians, that of disease ridden sadness or out0of-control partner swapping. A ballot initiative was successfully brought to put a Proposition on election day to Californian voters – would they amend the Constitution to specifically take this right away from gays and lesbians by amending the state constitution to define marriage as strictly between one man and one woman.
I see two things as being important here. The first is that this Proposition would take away rights which are already guaranteed. Secondly, the Court was ruling on a civil matters – churches would not be forced into giving their blessing to gays and lesbians if they did not want to.
The Propositions supporters were the usual motley bunch of homo-haters but with a big new twist. The Mormon Church decided that this was a fight they wanted a big part of – to the tune of about $20 million. The reason California became such a hotspot seems to be down to two reasons. The first is the state was considered a sure thing for an Obama victory, so this became the election fight. And secondly, the fundies thought that a victory in liberal California would set the marriage rights fight back decades. So they poured resources into the fight, bolstering the anti-civil rights crowd that already existed.
Their campaign was dishonest fear mongering from the start. They couldn’t really come out and say that they were against gay marriage because it was icky, so they talked about how it would effect churches (um, it wouldn’t) and, more importantly, how it would indoctrinate all their children into the joys of Babs and kd lang (and if those cultural touchstones seem out of date, then they aren’t nearly as out of date as the tired old arguments of the Yes campaign).
Unfortunately, instead of being met with a vigorous push back from the No campaign, they were met with timidity. From what I have read, it seems that the No people ran a pretty traditional campaign, which failed to emphasise the civil rights issues involved and mostly failed to even highlight gay people and their stories. The result was the passage of the amendment by 52% to 48%.
Except, that wasn’t the end of the story. To begin with, you had 20,000 couples who are married and are suddenly in legal limbo land. And more importantly, there was an explosion of anger and hurt from the gay community that has spread nationwide. It seems after 20 years of patiently waiting for straights to acknowledge their humanity and civil rights, working in traditional ways through the courts and legislators, hearing election promises then seeing them crumble (hello Clinton triangulism), something may have snapped.
Tens of thousands of people have poured onto the streets to protest against the amendment. Gay people, who were largely kept invisible by their own campaign, have taken full ownership of this issue. Donators to the Yes campaign (including individuals and companies) are experiencing major blow-back. And the Mormons, who invested so much in this fight, may suddenly think that the attention it has brought them from the mainstream media is not quite what they envisioned.